Before You Sign That Severance Agreement: What HR Isn't Telling You
You've just been told your position has been eliminated. Within the same conversation, someone from HR slides a document across the table. It's your severance agreement. The tone is warm and professional. The language is designed to make you feel like this is a generous gesture by people who care about your transition. It isn't. It's a negotiation document, and the negotiation started before you walked into the room.
Severance agreements are drafted by employment attorneys whose job is to protect the company. Every clause, every deadline, every framing choice serves that purpose. The package may be fair. It may even be generous. But you can't know that until you understand what the document is actually doing, and what it's designed to prevent you from doing.
The Anchor Is Not the Offer
The number they put in front of you first is not the offer. It's the anchor. Research on negotiation consistently shows that final outcomes correlate heavily with the opening number, regardless of its relationship to fair value. The company knows this. Their opening number is calibrated to set a psychological midpoint that favors them.
A common formula is one to two weeks of pay per year of service. But that's a guideline, not a law. The actual value of your severance depends on factors the company doesn't put on the page: your role's replacement cost, the risk of a lawsuit, your knowledge of sensitive information, your relationships with key clients, and whether the termination could raise legal issues around discrimination, retaliation, or breach of contract. The company has calculated all of this. You should too, before you evaluate the number in front of you.
What the General Release Actually Releases
Every severance agreement includes a general release of claims. In plain language: you agree not to sue the company for anything related to your employment. This is the real reason the severance exists. The company is buying your agreement not to pursue legal action. The money is the price of that agreement.
Read the release carefully. It typically covers discrimination claims, wage and hour disputes, breach of contract, retaliation claims, and anything else you might have a legal basis to pursue. If you have any reason to believe your termination was motivated by discrimination, retaliation for whistleblowing, or violation of an employment agreement, the release is worth far more to the company than the severance they're offering. In that situation, signing without consulting an employment attorney is the most expensive mistake you can make.
Some releases also include provisions you might not expect: assignment of intellectual property, non-compete restrictions, non-solicitation clauses that prevent you from contacting former colleagues or clients, and cooperation requirements that obligate you to assist the company in future matters at your own time and expense. Each of these has real value and real cost. None of them are non-negotiable.
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The Urgency Is Manufactured
Most severance agreements include a deadline. "Please sign and return within 21 days." This sounds tight. It sounds like you need to decide quickly. In reality, if you're over 40, the 21-day consideration period is legally mandated by the Older Workers Benefit Protection Act, and the company is required to give it to you. It's not a favor. It's the law. And after you sign, you have an additional 7 days to revoke.
For workers under 40, the deadline is whatever the company sets, and it's negotiable. If they want you to sign, they can wait. The urgency exists because the company benefits from your rapid decision. Every day you don't sign is a day you might consult a lawyer, research your market value, or realize the package is below what you should accept.
When you receive a severance offer, take the full time available to you. If the company pressures you to sign sooner, that pressure itself is information: it tells you they're more concerned about you thinking carefully than they are about paperwork timelines.
The Non-Compete May Be Unenforceable
Many severance agreements include non-compete provisions that restrict where you can work after leaving. These clauses vary enormously in enforceability depending on your state, your role, and how broadly they're written. In several states, non-competes are effectively unenforceable. In others, they must be reasonable in scope, duration, and geographic area to be valid.
A company that includes a non-compete in your severance is asking you to accept a restriction on your livelihood in exchange for a payment. That's a transaction, and the payment should reflect the cost. If the non-compete would prevent you from taking your next most likely job for 12 months, the severance should reflect 12 months of reduced earning potential. If it doesn't, the math is working against you.
Before you accept any non-compete provision, have an employment attorney in your state evaluate its enforceability. This is one of the most common areas where companies include clauses that would never survive a legal challenge but that effectively restrict workers who don't know any better.
Non-Disparagement Cuts Both Ways
Almost every severance agreement includes a non-disparagement clause: you agree not to say negative things about the company. Reasonable enough on the surface. But notice the asymmetry: does the company also agree not to disparage you? If the clause only runs one way, you're giving up your ability to tell your story while the company retains the freedom to characterize your departure however it wants.
A mutual non-disparagement clause is standard in well-drafted agreements. If it's not in yours, ask for it. Similarly, look at the reference provision. Does the agreement guarantee a positive reference? From whom? In what form? A verbal promise from your manager isn't worth much if your manager leaves the company next month. Get the reference commitment in writing, with specific language about what will be said.
What You Should Ask For
Most people treat severance as take-it-or-leave-it. It isn't. Here's what's commonly negotiable:
- More weeks of salary: The opening number is a floor, not a ceiling. Counter with a number based on your tenure, role level, and replacement difficulty.
- Extended benefits: COBRA is expensive. Ask for the company to cover the full premium for a longer period, not just a subsidy.
- Stock and equity: If you have unvested stock options or RSUs, negotiate for accelerated vesting beyond what's offered. The company can do this with a board resolution.
- Non-compete removal or narrowing: Ask to remove the non-compete entirely, or narrow its scope to only the most direct competitors.
- Outplacement upgrade: If they're offering a standard 90-day outplacement program, ask for executive-level services or a cash equivalent.
- Reference letter: Get the text of your reference in writing as part of the agreement, not as a verbal promise.
- Timing: Ask for a later separation date if it means additional benefit accrual, bonus eligibility, or equity vesting.
The company wants you to sign. That's their leverage point. Everything on the table exists because they want that signature. Don't give it away at the first asking price.
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